Each Wednesday I will begin the day by drawing a divination card for inspiration and posting it here.

With a few words from my intuition, I will give you something to think about for your day, and week.

Use the card as a writing prompt, or simply something to reflect on.

*I pick these cards at random, by shuffling a deck, and allowing a card to fall out on its own accord. Whilst shuffling, I ask God to show me what I need to see for this post, and all who read it. It may not resonate with you, and that is ok – this is just my offering to you who reads this, it is sent with love and best wishes. Take what feels right for you, and leave what does not, for another.

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As it is the month of receiving, I decided to use for this Wednesday Wisdom, Doreen Virtue’s The Romance Angels Oracle Cards .

The cards hold a vibrant energy of love, that I could feel whilst shuffling.

This was the card that came out:

So, not quite the card I was expecting this St Valentine’s Day!

However, the cards show us the things that  we need to see, rather than what we want to see.

I trust that this message is needed by someone who reads this blog, and that all of us can find at least a few nuggets of wisdom in it.

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This card has quite a heavy message.

It speaks of addictions that are affecting the current relationship you are in, addictions that are stopping you from being in a happy relationship, or addictions that keep you jumping from one relationship to another.

Yes, it can also be referring to drug addictions, alcohol addictions, or even sex addictions, – your own, or your partner’s.

It can also be referring to the need to over give .  Being dependant on loving another in order to bolster your own self esteem.  Feeling like you cannot stand on your own.

During a week and month that is laden with romantic messages, this card fell out for a reason.

In fact as I was shuffling, this card flew out!

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Times such as Christmas, birthdays, and Valentine’s Day, create inside of us an expectation that is not always healthy.

We believe that a gift, or show of appreciation, will seal up all the cracks that may be present in our relationship, or in ourselves.

This card is asking you to pay attention to anything that is coming up for you at the moment.

It is asking for some awareness, as to the issues that are playing out for you right now.

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Occasionally, I will check out the card that is at the bottom of the Deck after shuffling. Sometimes this card holds additional messages. I felt it was important to show you this card also today:

A pretty clear message that speaks to us of tightening up our boundaries, of practising self love, and self respect.

This card promises that showing ourselves love, will result in the real love of another.

The Strength of Self-Love

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These cards, though romantic in tone, can also be applied to all other relationships. Family, friendships,  and even co workers.

Are there any areas of your life where you are behaving co-dependent?

Use this month of receiving to stop giving so much, stop trying to control outcomes and people, and start to love yourself.

Much love Txx